My Consistency Fell, But My Drive Never Wavered

Happy Monday and Happy October! I always love when the first of the month falls on a Monday because it’s like a sign to hit reset if necessary, to start something that’s been boiling inside of you, or in my case to find my way back to making my health my priority. I’m not one to wait for the new year just because I’ve slacked off a bit.


This summer was extremely fun for me. I traveled a lot, I worked hard, but played even harder. In the midst of “playing” my time for the gym was almost non-existent and eating according to my goals just wasn't a priority for me. I’ve become content with knowing that that is ok. Sometimes consistency falls and when it does we can’t expect to still see results because we’re going against our goals. But, although my consistency fell, my drive and desire for my goals never wavered. I still had the same fire burning in me to achieve my body goals and to help other woman along the way. My lifestyle showed otherwise, and I know that. Consistency is no easy task, but it is key to seeing results in fitness, business, relationships, and just life.

It’s now time for me to merge consistency and my drive to be an unstoppable force. I’m shifting my priorities and reevaluating a lot.


Here’s to setting my goal of losing 30lbs (10lbs a month) by the beginning of the new year. I have a lot of life changing shifts coming this month and working out will help me keep a positive mindset through it all. I’m so thankful for creating a lifestyle out of fitness and health so that if I fall off for a bit I never have to worry about just quitting on my goals. That’s not an option, but lifting my head up and acknowledging my truth of being inconsistent and not prioritizing my health goals is.


My hope is that I can inspire one of you that still has that fire burning in you to just hop back in it. The longer you think about it, the longer you’ll question it. But if it’s what you really want there should be no questions. Now let’s get it!

Photos by Nigil Crawford

My Experience with the JJ Smith 10 Day Green Smoothie Cleanse: Advice, What I Loved + FAQ's

Hey ladies, happy Weekend!

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For the past 10 days I ate NOTHING solid and it was the most challenging thing I've ever done. To be honest, I haven't felt this accomplished since back in 2014 when I lost 50 lbs. Was I starving myself? Absolutely not. I had been feeling sick every time I ate for the past few weeks and I had a lack of an appetite, so I figured I would try a cleanse to kind of hit a restart. After much research and asking my IG fam I went along with the 10 Day Green Smoothie Cleanse by JJ Smith

It was amazing! I thought that I would be extremely fatigued, hungry all the time, and extremely irritable. Boy was I wrong! I actually had an extremely heightened energy and I remained full from the smoothies and drinking all of my water. I drank 3 smoothies a day—breakfast, lunch, and dinner. In between the smoothies I strived to drink a gallon of water a day, but most of the time I never surpassed 6 bottles. I drank Yogi detox tea everyday, which REALLY cleans you out and I also drank ginger tea every now and then. I snacked on fruits, boiled eggs, and peanuts. I'd recommend to keep the snacking to a minimum. Snack when hungry, not when you're bored. 

Biggest piece of advice? Mentally prepare yourself. This is not something you can jump into and think you'll just be ok. Prepare your mind and body to be stronger than any temptation that may cross your mind in the 10 days. Also, the key to this is to cleanse your body and continue to eat healthy post-cleanse. If all you're focused on throughout the 10 days is that big meaty piece of steak you're going to eat when it's over, you're missing the point. Prepare your mind and everything else will follow. 

I lost a total of 9lbs, which was amazing. The hard part will be to keep it off and keep losing an average of 2lbs per week. I'm now down to a number I haven't seen in years and I'll be at the goal I wish to maintain at by the end of summer at the rate I'm going. I'll share numbers when I hit it, I'm trying not to be too reliant on the scale, but on my progress physically.  

Besides weight loss my body feels so energized, my skin has a glow that I've never seen before and my waist lost 3 inches. OKUR! 29 inch waist, I'm not coming to play with y'all this summer, haha! 

I received so many DM's asking questions about how it was so I figured a FAQ format would work best. Here are the main questions I received below, I hope it answers everything and even inspires one of you to challenge yourself and try it. 

Did you workout? 

Yes, I worked out at least 5 out of the 10 days. I thought I they would be short workouts, but they were regular. I still did the same amount of cardio, weights, etc. I was fine. 

Did you eat at all or just juice? 

No I didn't eat at all. I just drank smoothies. The nutritional value of smoothies is better than juicing because a lot of times juicing takes out a lot of nutrients that a smoothie has. Below is an example of one of the smoothies. Everyday is a different recipe. 

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Did you buy the smoothies or make them?

I made every single smoothie at home with my Nutribullet.

About how much money did you spend?

For the first 5 days I spent $28 and for the last 5 $40, which was cheap I thought. Buying frozen fruit saved a lot of money, fresh fruit is more expensive and goes bad faster. I usually prefer fresh fruit, but for something like this the frozen fruit was more convenient. 

What was the hardest part? 

Going to social events was so hard for me. There was a happy hour in the office I couldn't partake in, July 4th I was at a BBQ, I went to a lounge and drank just water and lemon while everyone around me gulped down fruity summer drinks. But, to be honest it showed me how much I let food/ alcohol consume my social life and now I'm going to work towards changing that.

Do you have any tips?

Mentally prepare and go into it knowing that you're leaving unhealthy ways behind. Or if you're someone like me who already eats pretty clean, but just wants to try something new, if you thought your body felt clean before this cleanse will unlock an entire new level of clean. After it I've decided to also cut dairy out of my diet in addition to meat that I stopped eating back in November. 

Did you crave food?

Of course I did. Smells were actually so alarming. I would pass a pizza place and it would smell like the best pizza on Earth, same with bakeries. But, the willpower to overcome that is what fueled me to reach the end of the cleanse. And, when it was over I was so pleased with my results that I didn't even want those things. 

Is the book long?

To be completely honest I didn't read the entire book, I read the chapter on preparing and I got the recipes and grocery list out of it. Following that, I read a few blurbs on coming off of the cleanse and some detox methods for while I was on it. At the end of the book there are smoothie options to drink after the cleanse and recipes to try. 

If you all have any other questions comment them on here and I'd love to answer. If you're interested in trying you can get the book from Amazon, the kindle addition was only $11 and came right to my phone. It was great! 

30 Day Salad "Only" Challenge: What Does It Entail? Why Am I Even Doing It?

Happy May!

It's been a while, I know! While I've been blessed with amazing opportunities in 2018, I've been overwhelmed and haven't been able to post as much on my blog. But, it's a new month and I've set some new major goals for brand that I plan to follow through with into the Summer. 

Today I'm sharing a challenge that was a bit spontaneous. Yesterday, I posted a video to my Instagram stories of a salad and said, "30 days. Salads only." I told myself I wanted to do this in preparation for my vacation at the end of the month and I decided to share it with my followers. 

Today's salad from Chop't: Spinach, Cucumber, Corn, Shrimp, Quinoa,  light  Caesar dressing

Today's salad from Chop't: Spinach, Cucumber, Corn, Shrimp, Quinoa, light Caesar dressing

Within minutes my DM's were flooded with questions – "For breakfast too?" "What do you put in it?" "Salad for lunch, or period?" Instantly, I paused. I didn't think many people would be interested. Boy was I wrong! Later in the day I received more messages from friends and followers telling me they were joining me. 

Well, here we are! I'll give you all a better understanding and answer your questions. For one, no I am not eating salad for all three meals. I will continue eating my regular breakfast, which is usually oatmeal, egg whites, a protein shake, or fruit smoothie. I will also stick to my snacks, Greek yogurt and fruit. 

The 30 day rule for salads applies to lunch and dinner. A lot of times we often get so caught up in trying healthy meals we see on Instagram, or trying a new way of eating and we neglect the basics (I know I do). I'm simply being as basic as possible to prepare for both my vacation and summer, eating salads was the best way I knew how. I'm cutting the brown rice, sweet potatoes, etc. All these things have helped me maintain, but I'm trying to push my body a lot further. 

For those that said they wanted to join me, let me fill you in on how you can go wrong with a salad. 


I don't add croutons, cheese, or any other excessive fatty toppings. The whole point of eating the salad is to challenge myself and drenching a salad in dressing and unnecessary toppings defeats the purpose. 


Here is a good guide to making a salad, minus some, it just gives you a good idea of how to craft your salad. A few things I would automatically rule out like the steak, cheese, and fatty toppings.

I'm still a pescatarian,so shrimp and salmon will be my go-to's instead of meat. But, you can definitely add meats like grilled chicken! Try to switch up the base every now and then so you don't get bored. 30 days – you in? 

The past two days I've brought a salad from Chop't, but I plan on making some at home and bringing them in. I'll be sure to share the different mixtures I try my hand at. 

Don't forget to drink a gallon of water as well! Issa challenge! 





7 Things You Need To Ensure You're Ready For a 2018 Lifestyle Change


The countdown is on— 18 days until the New Year! Let’s be honest, it’s almost human nature for everyone to make a resolution of losing “x” amount of pounds in the New Year. It’s a fresh 365 days and while you can say you want to do something, your actions will truly be the test.

I am just a few pounds away from my goal for 2017 (yay) which would leave me 20bs away from my ultimate goal which I plan to tackle in the first quarter of 2018. If you are one of those people who are waiting until the 1st, which by the way you don’t have to wait, but if you are you should prepare yourself now; mentally, emotionally, and physically— of course. I’ve made it a little easier for you by gathering up a list of things that can at least be your step 1 to a lifestyle change in 2018.

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1. Headband by The Gym Wrap

Let’s face it, one of our number one excuses as women is, “My hair is done I can’t workout this week.” You can’t hold onto that excuse forever. The Gym Wrap, curated by Nicole Ari Parker is more than just a headband, it has a “moisture-wicking” technology that shields your hair and face from sweat. Yes, from sweat— meaning you can go hard in the gym and your edges can still be in tact. Shop here for more.

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2.  A Fitness Tracker

A good and accurate tracking device for your workouts can be an investment, but a good one. There are so many different options on the market depending on your preference. Whether it’s calories burnt you want to count or the steps you’ve taken throughout the day there’s a tracker for it. It’s a great way to hold yourself accountable for your goals and can be used both inside and outside of the gym. Check out reviews for your best option here.

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3.  A Workout Outfit You Love

I’ve written multiple articles in the past about the positive affect that a fashionable workout outfit can have on your workout. It’s not rocket science— when you look good you feel good. Invest in an outfit you love, so when you step in the gym fresh and ready to smash those goals in 2018 you can go feeling amazing. My favorite brand is Nike (as you guys know)—my ideal investment would be a cute sports bra and a nice pair of gym tights.

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4. Sneakers

Sometimes people underestimate the importance of sneakers. A comfortable shoe can improve your workout 100% based on if it’s easier to run in them, if they have good support. Too often our excuses take over, don’t let your excuse be you need new workout sneakers. Invest in a pair of good shoes made for working out like these and be ready to put in work.


5. A journal

Journals are SO essential. You can document your journey, you can document your food for the day, and you can even keep progress reports of your journey. My 2018 journal that will be used for all the above is from Please Notes, it reads “You Are Capable of Wondrous Things.” Who doesn’t want to read that before opening their journal?! It has inspirational quotes on the bottom of each page and it is full of affirmations.

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6. Reusable Water Bottle

As you know, drinking water is a HUGE part of weight loss and living a healthy lifestyle. If you’re like me and go through multiple bottles of water a day then it’ll be a good investment. My favorite bottle is Aldo's 'Fearlessly Female' one! Something about motivational texts on bottles helps me get through the water serving. It retails for only $20, so snag one for you and your accountability partner!

7.  A Plan

Y’all had to know this was coming! When you fail to plan, you plan to fail. Do not jump into wanting to change your lifestyle without planning. Proper planning is essential to success. Whether you map out what you need to do per month, week, etc.— have a plan! Hold yourself accountable and the success will follow.

I have majority of these already done and a few weeks to get the rest out the way! What do you ladies need on the list?


#NoDaysOffNovember Week 1: A Challenge Is Just That, A Challenge!

As promised, I am here for my week 1 recap of my personal #NoDaysOffNovember challenge. These past 7 days of challenging myself to workout everyday has been exactly that, a challenge! It felt as though everything was holding me back from going to the gym these past few days. Whether it was getting off of work too late, being exhausted, etc. and I know this sounds like excuse after excuse, but it's not it's reality. 


It takes me a little over 2 hours to get to the gym when I get off of work, so sometimes I don't get there until after 8 and I don't drive so I have to calculate my time getting home and everything into it. I did, in fact workout on Saturday and Sunday though, and I gave it my all. I have also been eating according to my goals, which resulted in me losing 5lbs in a week even though I didn't workout how I wanted.


I say all of this to say that a challenge is a challenge and I applied this pressure to my journey for a reason. If I got upset because I didn't go some days that made me happy because it confirmed that I was testing my abilities. Going everyday may be a little unrealistic for me because of my schedule, but that doesn't mean that I can't wake up everyday with a goal of overcoming that challenge. 


What I am proud of is all the times I turned down food that wasn't aligned with my goals. The cupcakes at the baby shower at work, the milkshake/ burger restaurant invite I got from my mom, the loads of junk food in my house that I didn't lay a hand on. These are all challenges I overcame them, so I can't beat myself up for missing a few workouts. Week 2, here we go! 


How's your November going? 

Outfit is all Nike 

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#NoDaysOffNovember: Letting the End of the Year Set the Tone for 2018

Happy November! I don't post to my fitness portion of my website as I should, but I am working on it. There are a lot of FAQ I get via DM that I'd love to answer in a blog format. So, definitely be on the lookout for that, but in other news we have 2 months left of 2017. Can you believe it?! 


It's been a great year for health and fitness for me, particularly the end half of the year because I've lost 20lbs since graduation and I finally have found a healthy balance since I am not in college anymore. Last November I challenged myself to #NoDaysOffNovember which was basically pushing myself to work out every single day, even if it's not the gym just do SOMETHING! Well, I failed. Returning home from school for the holidays, the end of the semester and more got in the way. But, when I fail, I learn. Therefore, I am attempting #NoDaysOffNovember again. I have a jam-packed month with events, but I will not let that deter me.

Being that we are in the final 60 days of the year, whatever we do will determine the drive that we go into 2018 with. Don't wait until January 1st to hit the gas running, lightly press that gas starting now so your fire will be hot and burning by the new year. 

If anyone wants to join me on my #NoDaysOffNovember challenge then let's go! And, yes I am including Thanksgiving, I'll probably go for a light jog that morning. Every week I'll give you guys updates on how it's going. Talk to you then! 


Asia Milia


Making My Health Part of My Slay

Yesterday I posted a photo to my fitness Instagram that showed what I looked like in August 2014 after successfully losing 50lbs. Then, I showed what I looked like in the same dress 2 weeks ago the day before my graduation, 30lbs heavier. The picture was hard to post, but necessary. Necessary for myself, and anyone else who may have needed that inspiration. To be honest, falling off was never my goal, but life happens. I plan to revamp my entire nutrition and workout plan in June when I come back from vacation, so posting that was my "I've had enough, it's time to reach my goal" type of thing.

I want you to start to feel like your health is part of your slay
— Lakeitha Duncan

One comment on the post inspired me to write this post. It's no surprise that the comment came from the person who inspired me to start my journey, Lakeitha Duncan. She commented, "I want you to start to feel like your health is part of your slay." I read that comment over, and over, and over again. It spoke to me. Most of my followers know, in addition to having my fitness brand I also have a fashion brand. Fashion is my life, and this comment reminded me of why I started my fitness journey. I was 18 years old, with a dream. I wanted to be a fashion blogger and I had all these outfit ideas, but not the body I wanted. So, I made it a priority to get my health in order so I could slay how I wanted. Somewhere along the ride, my health fell off. So, now I'm taking it back. I'm making health part of my slay. I make shoes, bags, and all of my outfits a priority because that is what contributes to my slay, but now my health is an additional accessory.

This saying to me means that if I'm not healthy I can't slay, and slaying is my life, because it is my brand. From now on, when I'm checking off my checklist of an outfit or any look I plan to serve, I'm adding health to the list and I will no longer allow myself to fiercely wear an outfit without my health being just as important to me as my clothes and accessories are. 

The happy hour drinks, 1/2 off appetizers and bottomless mimosa brunch specials are cool. But, I can no longer show up to these events and not stay true to the healthy lifestyle I encourage others to live. So, to my 150lb body goal, I'm coming for you. To my health, you're now part of my slay and I won't slay without you. And, to all my ladies I challenge you to do this with me. 


Asia Milia 

When Things Get Hard, Push Through

January 20, 2017 made 3 years since the day I decided to live a healthy lifestyle and set out a weight loss goal. That day in 2013, I woke up determined to change my life for many reasons, and within 9 months my 50 pounds I set out to lose was gone, but I still had a few pounds to lose until I reached my ultimate goal.

The past few months have been a fail in my journey, this is the most time I've been away from the gym while eating and drinking whatever I want. I truly fell off. It seemed like every time I was getting back into being motivated I just couldn't. In the past 2 months I've probably cried more than I've cried in my entire lifetime because I was dealing with a situation that I sort of let over power everything else in my life. I read a quote about a Capricorn that said, "When a Capricorn is hurt everything that used to be important to them won't be anymore and they'll just kind of shut down in every aspect." When I say this is me, THIS IS ME. I shut down and threw everything to the side, which was selfish because I know that my job is to inspire and motivate people. It's amazing how much I started looking at things different and how much I learned about myself from the situation. 

When I say this smile on my face in these pictures was not here for a while, BELIEVE ME. Everyone deals with things differently, but what I can say is that whatever may be causing you stress in your life whether it be a relationship, a friendship, family, school, or anything, remember the positive things in your life. It can be easy to shut down, but what does shutting down do for you and your goals? Nothing. I did it, but I don't want anyone else to do that, especially when you have to build yourself back up. 

However, with only a few months left until graduation, and so many things I have planned for 2017 it is time to gain my motivation back in my journey. 2017 is the year my journey has to end and be about maintaining and following other plans I have in the health/fitness world. It's been a roller coaster ride for 4 years, and I know what I have to do. It's what I'm going to do. 

My main goal is to get to my goal weight and eat what I know I need to eat while working out hard. Interestingly enough, after my Las Vegas trip which consisted of drinking alcohol every single day and partying hard to celebrate my 21st birthday, I lost 6 pounds. I questioned it, but then I accepted it and took that as I sign to get back into the swing of things. I will now be more consistent when posting about fitness on here, I'll share what's working for me and some personal challenges that I'll be doing that I'd love for others to join in hopes of reaching their goals. So, here's to 2017 and finally reaching that fitness goal I set out 4 years ago as a freshman in college. 

How to Avoid Gaining Weight During Holiday Season


The holiday season is finally here. Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year's are all around the corner. My birthday is also included in the upcoming holidays, but I'll save that for another post. It's no secret that we love eat around time. We pile our Thanksgiving dinner plates up and dessert, most of the time without thinking about a carb or a calorie. We stuff our faces at holiday parties with sweets and treats, drinks like Egg Nog and sweets like Sweet Potato Pie. And, we load our bodies with alcohol as we ring in the new year. And, that's fine, the holiday season is a time to enjoy yourself and your family, however if you strive to live a healthy lifestyle daily there are certain steps that can be taken to ensure you don't gain too much weight during the holiday season.

1. Fit the gym into your schedule

Waking up on the morning of a holiday is not impossible; going to the gym before you stuff your face is a great way to prepare your body. Also, if you wake up the next morning to sweat out the liquor and jog off some of the food your body will thank you. Just eating, drinking, and not moving is not helping to avoid weight gain at all. The holiday season can get hectic with shopping for family and friends, attending parties, and more, but don't forget to still add the gym into your schedule, because you still want to look good in your holiday outfits!

2. Drink a lot of water

Water is the key to life. Drinking water is so beneficial from the way it removes toxins from the body to the way it reduces bloating. Those that practice a healthy lifestyle know that a gallon of water is the recommended serving, and during this holiday season to avoid gaining weight drinking a gallon of water can help tremendously. Holiday party alcoholic drinks can add up; enjoy the open bar, but for every drink you have challenge yourself to drink two water bottles. Personally, I like detox water. I put lemon, cucumber, and mint leaves in my water and let it do the work itself. 

3. Pace yourself

Take your time. It's not a race to finish your food, your plate isn't going anywhere. A study done titled, "The Behavioral Science of Eating," conducted by the Journal of the Association for Consumer Research found that eating on smaller plates can curb overeating and reduce how much you serve yourself. I understand Thanksgiving is a holiday to pig out, that's cool, but when you're at a holiday party with tons of food you don't need everything! Eat slow, and eat smart. Remember, mind over matter. You're only as hungry as you tell yourself you are. 

4. Set Limits

Establish in your head before hand your plan. If you know you're invited to 4-5 holiday parties on top of spending Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year's with your family then set limits in your head. Understand that if you're drinking a lot of alcoholic drinks at a New Year's Eve Party, then maybe you don't need to indulge in alcoholic drinks and sweets the week before on Christmas. Setting limitations may be hard, but it takes a lot of willpower and it's worth it. 

5. Don't Arrive Starving

The holidays are a time to be thankful for family, friends, co-workers, and anyone in your life. Most parties and gatherings are about enjoying each other's company, so try to focus on that more than stuffing your face every time you go to a holiday gathering. If you arrive hungry you're going to eat every cookie, cake, and drink in your sight. Eat something light before you go so you don't stuff yourself. However, on Thanksgiving, that's different — eat and enjoy!

Don't forget your goals this holiday season and let go of your hard work when the season passes. As soon as the holiday's are over it's crunch time, because Summer '17 preparation starts now!

Happy Holidays!!


when fashion leads you to your love of fitness

A lot of people don't know that I live two completely different lives. I live my fashion-forward life, inspiring women through style, being a go-getter, and expressing my love of style. The other half of Asia Milia is obsessed with health, fitness, and inspiring women to reach their body goals and not admire to be like anyone else physically.

I like to think I was born with a love for fashion. I was put on this Earth for that and I've always been a fashionista. However, my love for health and fitness wasn't something that came overnight. Fashion actually led me to my love of fitness. After my 18th birthday when I really started to figure out what I wanted to do with my life, I knew that my style couldn't be the style I wanted it to if I didn't achieve the body that I wanted. I worked tirelessly in the gym for 9 months and lost 50 pounds. 

What motivated me to reach my goal was my love for fashion. I told myself I wanted to start a fashion blog, but I couldn't until I reached my goal "size." In the past 2 and a half years after losing, I've gained some back, but I'm still on a constant journey. 

Here, I will share my journey, my workouts, my secrets, and what ultimately keeps me motivated to reach my own body goals.